You asked my thoughts on Heated Rivalry, and so I binge-watched it with a friend (who herself was watching it for the fourth time!). I'm sharing multiple videos on my TikTok reflecting on the series and addressing the questions I've received, here is the first, where I discuss corrective experience. Have you watched? What are your thoughts? | Esther Perel
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You asked my thoughts on Heated Rivalry, and so I binge-watched it with a friend (who herself was watching it for the fourth time!). I'm sharing multiple videos on my TikTok reflecting on the series and addressing the questions I've received, here is the first, where I discuss corrective experience. Have you watched? What are your thoughts? | Esther Perel
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Discover the truth about desire. | Esther Perel
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Discover the truth about desire. | Esther Perel
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"Am I being gaslit or am I overly sensitive?"In my new episode of Where Should We Begin?, I speak to a woman who called me for a reality check. The content of her examples told me her side of the story: he hounded her when she was sick. He picked fights right before seeing friends (and then welcomed said friends as if nothing was wrong). He berated her constantly about how mean she was, all whilst yelling at her. Her tone, unsure and exhausted, told me more. She has struggled with boundary setti
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"Am I being gaslit or am I overly sensitive?"In my new episode of Where Should We Begin?, I speak to a woman who called me for a reality check. The content of her examples told me her side of the story: he hounded her when she was sick. He picked fights right before seeing friends (and then welcomed said friends as if nothing was wrong). He berated her constantly about how mean she was, all whilst yelling at her. Her tone, unsure and exhausted, told me more. She has struggled with boundary setti
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On this week's episode of Where Should We Begin?, a woman is grappling with the aftermath of a tumultuous relationship with a narcissistic partner. First, he love bombed her and made her feel special--only to turn manipulative and aggressive in a time of need following her father's death. She doesn't know how to bounce back or how she will learn to trust again, which we discuss in this latest episode of the podcast. Have you ever been "love bombed"? Enjoy the full podcast on YouTube now: https:/
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On this week's episode of Where Should We Begin?, a woman is grappling with the aftermath of a tumultuous relationship with a narcissistic partner. First, he love bombed her and made her feel special--only to turn manipulative and aggressive in a time of need following her father's death. She doesn't know how to bounce back or how she will learn to trust again, which we discuss in this latest episode of the podcast. Have you ever been "love bombed"? Enjoy the full podcast on YouTube now: https:/
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World-Renowned Therapist Esther Perel on Relationships, Mental Health, and Self-Care During Lockdown
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World-Renowned Therapist Esther Perel on Relationships, Mental Health, and Self-Care During Lockdown
May 29, 2020
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Esther Perel: The Truth About Infidelity, Intimacy, and Love
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Esther Perel: The Truth About Infidelity, Intimacy, and Love
Oct 11, 2017
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He accidentally dated an OnlyFans Star. On this week's episode of the podcast, post-breakup rumination is a familiar spiral. We replay the signs, question our judgment, and wonder how we didn’t see it coming. This week, Esther speaks with a man grappling with the lingering grief and betrayal of discovering that his ex wasn't exactly who he thought she was. Watch now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/855I3mni8Bc?si=Opw8cxj9yAtqFVog&t=1 | Esther Perel
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He accidentally dated an OnlyFans Star. On this week's episode of the podcast, post-breakup rumination is a familiar spiral. We replay the signs, question our judgment, and wonder how we didn’t see it coming. This week, Esther speaks with a man grappling with the lingering grief and betrayal of discovering that his ex wasn't exactly who he thought she was. Watch now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/855I3mni8Bc?si=Opw8cxj9yAtqFVog&t=1 | Esther Perel
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Long-term love doesn’t have to mean less desire. This course with Esther Perel helps couples rediscover attraction, play, and erotic connection—no travel, no group sessions. Do it together, at your own pace. | Esther Perel
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Long-term love doesn’t have to mean less desire. This course with Esther Perel helps couples rediscover attraction, play, and erotic connection—no travel, no group sessions. Do it together, at your own pace. | Esther Perel
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It all started with a secret. And over time, the secret turned into a lie. The lie turned into a deception. The deception turned into a betrayal. And now. It has become a fiasco.In the premiere episode of Where Should We Begin? titled "Donor Daddy", I delve into the intricate web of consequences that stem from a well-kept secret. Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts or your preferred podcast platform via the link in the comments. | Esther Perel
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It all started with a secret. And over time, the secret turned into a lie. The lie turned into a deception. The deception turned into a betrayal. And now. It has become a fiasco.In the premiere episode of Where Should We Begin? titled "Donor Daddy", I delve into the intricate web of consequences that stem from a well-kept secret. Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts or your preferred podcast platform via the link in the comments. | Esther Perel
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Today I’m sharing a classic episode of the podcast, recorded during the pandemic. I spoke with a newsroom about what it felt like to work remotely. This still feels quite relevant today. Watch now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/71EjQLIMq_s?si=axxZ8pA10YW6A9TL | Esther Perel
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Today I’m sharing a classic episode of the podcast, recorded during the pandemic. I spoke with a newsroom about what it felt like to work remotely. This still feels quite relevant today. Watch now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/71EjQLIMq_s?si=axxZ8pA10YW6A9TL | Esther Perel
42.3K views6 months ago
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Esther Perel Explains Why People In Legitimately Good Relationships Cheat — And Why It's Time To Stop Condemning Affairs
Esther Perel Explains Why People In Legitimately Good Relationships Cheat — And Why It's Time To Stop Condemning Affairs
Jan 11, 2022
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I speak with a man who can't stop thinking about a woman who changed the course of his life. It's been decades, and even though he now dates men, he wonders how to live with never telling her how he truly felt. How do you hold a candle of gratitude for someone who will never know how much they meant to you? Click here to watch now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XDk7zDu30YU?si=p-3efo_y0zIdDdcb or subscribe to Entre Nous with Esther Perel on Substack, for exclu
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I speak with a man who can't stop thinking about a woman who changed the course of his life. It's been decades, and even though he now dates men, he wonders how to live with never telling her how he truly felt. How do you hold a candle of gratitude for someone who will never know how much they meant to you? Click here to watch now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XDk7zDu30YU?si=p-3efo_y0zIdDdcb or subscribe to Entre Nous with Esther Perel on Substack, for exclu
89.4K views5 months ago
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Let’s talk about what’s changed in relationships - and if you missed me live at Psychotherapy Networking Symposium - I hope you’ll join me for 2 days of conversation, workshops, and experiences at my annual Sessions Live: Mating in the MetaCrisis happening April 25 and 26. Reserve your virtual ticket here: https://www.estherperel.com/sessions-live | Esther Perel
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Let’s talk about what’s changed in relationships - and if you missed me live at Psychotherapy Networking Symposium - I hope you’ll join me for 2 days of conversation, workshops, and experiences at my annual Sessions Live: Mating in the MetaCrisis happening April 25 and 26. Reserve your virtual ticket here: https://www.estherperel.com/sessions-live | Esther Perel
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On this week's episode of the podcast, a couple sits down with me to untangle trust, control, and intimacy after becoming parents. But is the language they're using and the amount of analysis helpful? Their love is strong, but everyday tensions spiral into power struggles. Join us as we explore moving beyond the labels to find a new connection. Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/cVaC3qEhsdc | Esther Perel
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On this week's episode of the podcast, a couple sits down with me to untangle trust, control, and intimacy after becoming parents. But is the language they're using and the amount of analysis helpful? Their love is strong, but everyday tensions spiral into power struggles. Join us as we explore moving beyond the labels to find a new connection. Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/cVaC3qEhsdc | Esther Perel
105.8K views6 months ago
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One of my favorite parts of my podcast is being able to reflect on all of the stories that were told throughout the seasons. Some of these stories stick with you forever. Like this one.I sat down with two friends and fellow dancers at a strip club: one brings years of experience, the other a youthful energy that turns angry at times. They’re here to talk about boundaries, educating “civilians" about their work, family acceptance, and how they navigate their industry. Join me on "Esther's Office
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One of my favorite parts of my podcast is being able to reflect on all of the stories that were told throughout the seasons. Some of these stories stick with you forever. Like this one.I sat down with two friends and fellow dancers at a strip club: one brings years of experience, the other a youthful energy that turns angry at times. They’re here to talk about boundaries, educating “civilians" about their work, family acceptance, and how they navigate their industry. Join me on "Esther's Office
16.8K viewsAug 21, 2023
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Last week, I shared something I've never done before. On the podcast, I reconnected with a couple two years after we first spoke. They had been living in separate countries due to the war in Ukraine, and are now reunited. And while we were speaking. I asked them to change; to freshen up so to speak, and come back to the session. I gave them 4 minutes, so they could experience how changing their clothes might impact how they felt. But here's what is brand new: On Substack, last week, we shared th
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Last week, I shared something I've never done before. On the podcast, I reconnected with a couple two years after we first spoke. They had been living in separate countries due to the war in Ukraine, and are now reunited. And while we were speaking. I asked them to change; to freshen up so to speak, and come back to the session. I gave them 4 minutes, so they could experience how changing their clothes might impact how they felt. But here's what is brand new: On Substack, last week, we shared th
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Dating today is less about wanting a life together, and more about having experiences that satisfy us and our sense of self, even if it’s temporary. We are always looking for the next best thing. As we shift the focus to ourselves, we become more of a consumer, and as consumers, we are taught to evaluate meticulously. We want to ensure value in our relationships, return on investment, and if or when the value seems to drop, we're caught asking ourselves if there's a better deal out there. The co
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Dating today is less about wanting a life together, and more about having experiences that satisfy us and our sense of self, even if it’s temporary. We are always looking for the next best thing. As we shift the focus to ourselves, we become more of a consumer, and as consumers, we are taught to evaluate meticulously. We want to ensure value in our relationships, return on investment, and if or when the value seems to drop, we're caught asking ourselves if there's a better deal out there. The co
22K viewsJul 6, 2023
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Have you listened to last week's episode of the podcast yet? Given that we're exploring friendship this month, I want to share some of my dear friends and colleagues and their expertise with you! For those of you who missed Sessions Live this past April; I’m sharing select conversations on the podcast. Most recently, last Monday, I shared talks featuring @PaulBrowde and @NedraTawwab. A psychiatrist and narrative therapist, Paul Browde traces his journey from secrecy to aliveness. Growing up quee
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Have you listened to last week's episode of the podcast yet? Given that we're exploring friendship this month, I want to share some of my dear friends and colleagues and their expertise with you! For those of you who missed Sessions Live this past April; I’m sharing select conversations on the podcast. Most recently, last Monday, I shared talks featuring @PaulBrowde and @NedraTawwab. A psychiatrist and narrative therapist, Paul Browde traces his journey from secrecy to aliveness. Growing up quee
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Love Is Not a Permanent State of Enthusiasm: An Interview with Esther Perel
Love Is Not a Permanent State of Enthusiasm: An Interview with Esther Perel
Dec 9, 2018
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172 - Esther Perel: Trauma, how narratives shape our worldview, and accepting uncomfortable emotions
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172 - Esther Perel: Trauma, how narratives shape our worldview, and accepting uncomfortable emotions
447.8K viewsAug 16, 2021
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Dating Advice: How To Turn a Spark into a Flame
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Dating Advice: How To Turn a Spark into a Flame
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Rituals for Dating - Esther Perel
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Rituals for Dating - Esther Perel
120.7K viewsMar 18, 2021
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The SECRET To DESIRE In A Long-Term Relationship with Esther Perel & Lewis Howes
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The SECRET To DESIRE In A Long-Term Relationship with Esther Perel & Lewis Howes
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Rituals for Breakups - Esther Perel
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Rituals for Breakups - Esther Perel
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Esther Perel on What the Other Woman Knows
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Can You TRUST Your Partner After They CHEATED? | Esther Perel
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Esther Perel — The Erotic Is an Antidote to Death
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How Relationships Have Become Chaotic | Esther Perel | Google Zeitgeist
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